The whole dating scenario is different for both men and women no doubt! While women try to figure out what to wear and all that, we like to keep it simple. Sure, we’ll put on their best (or at least, one of their best) outfit for the night but inside our head there are only three letters spelled out and these letters are F-U-N.
This doesn’t mean that we’re jerks. The mere fact that we’ve asked a particular girl out means that we have chosen the one that fancies us. That itself is a good starting point for the date.
What’s Insider Our Head
So while the night starts out, men and women don’t think the same at this point. That’s why dating is pretty much a hit and miss.
It’s true that men think very differently on a date. While women may think beyond the first date, we men seize the moment. At least, that’s what I do. By seizing the moment, I am able to get to know my date really well and have some fun at the same time.
Of course, there’s just no doubt that we do try to impress our dates. I mean, that’s why we try to get all the help we can get to understand women. But in all honesty, we have our own thing going in our head. At some point, it would be great if women or, at least, our dates understood whatever was going on in our head.
This article about dating tips is the closest that can get to what we, guys, think about dating.
Please, No Pressure!
Come on, it’s the end of the day and the last thing we need is pressure! We had looked forward to the date. Remember, a guy wouldn’t ask out a woman out if he weren’t interested at all. But that doesn’t mean it’s serious.
We usually know when to follow up a date. Just like any badass guy, we will follow up a date at the end of the evening. We will set the time and date for the next date.
Hence, women should not have to worry about follow ups. That’s out job. If we don’t follow up, then may be it’s a miss.
Our Own Personal Space
There’s a personal space that should never be invaded. I think this works for both men and women. We all have our own personal space and we don’t like it when someone goes beyond the line. This is an important thing for women to know.
Stop The Interrogation
We don’t like answering too many questions. Keep the night light, cool, and fun. There’s a big difference between conversing and interrogating. It’s just a date, so nothing personal.
Too Much Information
There’s just some information that we don’t want to know about, at least not on the first couple of dates. Personal problems can definitely ruin the fun. The night is too short to talk about something so depressing.
While it’s a fact that we, men, do our best to impress our dates, I think it’ll help a lot if women also knew what goes on in our heads … ooops, I meant in our head.